So, we split up, but remained pretty close friends. It was this weird sort of like, “I love you and I can’t imagine my life without you, but I this is too comfortable and complacent and neither of us is going anywhere, and we’re starting to resent one another because of it.” We were still in love, but felt like we needed space to grow and get our careers going without the distractions, complications and obligations of a serious relationship. We lived together for a little over 3 years, and were both kind of stuck in a rut. My ex and I were together 4 years, and broke up 1 year ago. He’s also a redditor, so throwaway account for obvious reasons.
#STILL IN LOVE WITH EX UPDATE#
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